Would you stay with someone who does drugs?

I am a 15 year old boy and i have done several drugs since just turning 15.I have tried spliff,nitrous and lsd.All great experiences,changed my life for the better.I am desperate to try E.They were all my own choice and i did most of it on my own.I researched all the drugs before hand and have a very indepth knowledge of most all drugs.Before you judge me,i am brought up in a pretty well off family in a village in scotland.I do very well in school and i am top classes for every subject.I only see problems with things like herion and coke and hard drugs that are physically addictive.I sometimes drink but not that heavily and prefer drugs.Most girls think my qualities are quite attractive and that i am sensible and fun.I currently am looking for a gf that likes the drugs i do and that we can have a fun relationship with them to answer the original question.

It's amazing how charming, smart and beautiful a person is when they first start using drugs. But have you ever met a 40 year old drug addict? They are none of those things. The drugs will rob you of all of that.

[LadyLove]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I am a 15 year old boy and i have done several drugs since just turning 15.I have tried spliff,nitrous and lsd.All great experiences,changed my life for the better.I am desperate to try E.They were all my own choice and i did most of it on my own.I researched all the drugs before hand and have a very indepth knowledge of most all drugs.Before you judge me,i am brought up in a pretty well off family in a village in scotland.I do very well in school and i am top classes for every subject.I only see problems with things like herion and coke and hard drugs that are physically addictive.I sometimes drink but not that heavily and prefer drugs.Most girls think my qualities are quite attractive and that i am sensible and fun.I currently am looking for a gf that likes the drugs i do and that we can have a fun relationship with them to answer the original question.

I believe that this post is hoax BUT if there is any truth in it then this young man is going to grow up to be a loser. His parents should step in and get him some help before it is too late. Teens should be busy with studies and having innocent fun. Not exoerimenting with sex and harmful drugs! His future is limited if he continues on like this.

[Annsdil]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I am a 15 year old boy and i have done several drugs since just turning 15.I have tried spliff,nitrous and lsd.All great experiences,changed my life for the better.I am desperate to try E.They were all my own choice and i did most of it on my own.I researched all the drugs before hand and have a very indepth knowledge of most all drugs.Before you judge me,i am brought up in a pretty well off family in a village in scotland.I do very well in school and i am top classes for every subject.I only see problems with things like herion and coke and hard drugs that are physically addictive.I sometimes drink but not that heavily and prefer drugs.Most girls think my qualities are quite attractive and that i am sensible and fun.I currently am looking for a gf that likes the drugs i do and that we can have a fun relationship with them to answer the original question.

Your first E may well be your last.

Your research will never, ever come from unbiased, impartial sources. The sources will be always on the sides of themselves to get kids like you to buy into them. Unless you take each and every drug you have bought to a lab to get it analysed, you cannot guarantee what they have mixed in with the drugs they are claiming to be selling. I doubt any of it is pure. You telling me you'd trust a drug dealer with your life?

If the only way you can get enjoyment out of your life is by doing drugs, I feel sorry for you. If the only way you can look attractive and cool is by doing drugs, I feel sorry for you. If the only way you have a personality is by doing drugs, I feel sorry for you. If your highest expectation of a relationship is one with a fellow drug user, I feel desperately sorry for you.

Drug dealers and drug users become very self absorbed, selfish people. They go down a road of self destruction, from which many never come back. They care for no-one but themselves. Your parents however, I am sure do care about you, they love you and the worst gift you can ever give them is to witness your cold lifeless wrecked body on a mortuary slab.

Why not do something contructive with your life, something you can look back on and feel proud of yourself doing. Be fit, have a glowing, healthy body that will turn girls heads, not an emaciated, greasy spotted one that will turn girls sick.

Once you go down this road, even if you swear now you are not doing anything "heavy", it is a very difficult road to turn back from. If you think Pete Doherty and Amy Whinehouse and co are cool. Think again, I bet their parents would let you in on a few home truths.

Don't do it! Get a life and cherish it!

this is tough i am going though it now! let me tell you it sucks, espically when your spouse still wont admit the problem. I try everything to catch him where there is no denying it, even though he has drained our bank account, put us behind on our bills, and even sold our stuff. but what do you do?

Originally Posted by LadyLove

If you found out that your lover or spouse was doing drugs, would you leave that person? Or would you stay wiht that person and try to help them through their problems?
And what if the drug of choice was marijuana? Everyone always says that pot is the "harmless" drug but I disagree. I think that it is extremely harmful because the effects turn one into an entirely different person (it is addicting, makes you forgetful, moody, and lazy). Do you think that it is harmful OR harmless?

Weed is not that bad but if he/she use everyday then that can be a problem. Sometimes weed can lead to more stronger drugs. Just tell him how you feel and do hold back be honest with him/her. Eventually they will tell you why the are using drugs. Sometimes theres a bigger reason why people use drugs.

im with timothy leary on this. except for cake it is bad and it is a made up drug.

im with a man that uses heroin i have been with him for 8 years and have 4 beautiful children with him,but he keeps telling me he will get of the drugs but 5 years later we are still in the same position,i really dont no what to do leave or stay with him i love him dearly but does he feel the same because if he did wouldnt he get of the drugs and keep his family together hhhhhhhuummm im so i really dont no what to do i dont usually talk to people about it none of my family no about his habit so i need to talk to someone,

[Sandra]

Please for your sake and the sake of the kids leave.
Maybe then he will make some changes and if he gives it up maybe consider giving him a second chance but usually things like this just get worse.
I'll be sending you my thoughts and prayers and my hope that God will look after you and protect you and your kids.

[purpretty]

my husband is being perscribed pain pills by a doctor and it seems that they constantly prescribe these just for the money they get! However they have him increased on such a high dose. And now he seems to be so hooked on them that everything about him has changed so drasticley he denies that this is the case however i see his medicine and it is gone befor the script is due again he says his pain level was so high on sertain days which seems to be everyday now that a months suply wont last him 2 weeks now. He is over the top for me. I have dealt with achohol and coke and marawana and other street drugs in the past we have moved two states away because he can not say no to the ones that bring those things around. well this worked for 3 years and now he has this doctor and it seems there is nothing i can do i have talked till i am blue in the face and because his soctor days all his organs are in good shape by blood work he only listens to her but she dont live or love him to know what these do to him. i dont know what to do. i am not sure i can threaten to leave and really do it! i have done that before and find that the types of people out there interested in life time companions so the same or worse and i dont want to start over and i dont really want to give up on him but i feel like i am loosing myself everyday i feel i cannt talk to him and when will he explode and what day will he be happy. i really dont know what to do? can you help?

[Sandra]

You might really want to consider talking to a professional about this.
I don't know if he is getting these pills for an injury but it does sound like they have become more of a problem than you can handle without some type of assistance. Check to see if there is a local program that can help.

Best of luck dealing with this problem and I'll remember to say a few prayers for you.